Nobody can use language against you UNLESS you allow them to

Nobody can use it against you unless you allow them to. Language is merely a tool. If someone used a certain language to subjugate you, then don't let THAT PERSON cloud your ENTIRE PERCEPTION OF A LANGUAGE. The Malays say, "kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga", don't let that happen to you- don't allow someone to destroy your perception of a tool so useful as language. 

If you do, you would have done YOURSELF much wrong and loss. Language is as neutral as any tool; it can be used, and abused by anyone - the question is; will you let them use it against you? 

If you avoid and belittle any other language above another, then your enemy has won. The only language deserving of such high and elevated status is only - Arabic. It is the language of the final and pure revelation and the language of the paradise dwellers.