10 ways to become irresistible to me, your wife

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(I have no particular soft spot for Pierce Brosnan, I in fact, do not find him or James Bond irresistible)

Something I found and edited from askmen.com

Most important of all, not being able to achieve all is not true success, but attempt and achieving slow and steady success is better and more promising in making it last longer and permanent change, insyaAllah.
10 ways to become irresistible to me, your wife
(originally titled, Top 10 ways to be irresistible to women) 
 

1.Be romantic. 
Not just 30 or 60 minutes before sexual intimacy.And no, buying chocolates and flowers does not make you a romantic.It's....hard to describe, sigh. It's just the little things, a little bit here and there, small but very meaningful, to show that you care and is careful, protecting me because you love me.

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2. Give me the right kind of attention.
Again, does not really involve BUYING anything, that's now what really matters. What matters to me is that you thought of me. You know, like a giddy school boy crazy for a girl. Saying that you thought of me or sincerely tell me something about me that you noticed (and like) or wants to compliment, without any hidden intentions or pretensions.

3. Be confident
Show an unstaunching fear in what you believe in. Not conceit or arrogance! Standing up for me, or yourself, and for what is right. Assertive, but not brash, conceited or showing off.


4. Be adventurous. Responsibly, of course.
I guess it's one of those macho guy thingies that women like to watch. Hurm, not if it takes you away from me, not all the time or when I need you to need me. Remember how irresistible you were to me when you were cutting the long grass along the sides of the house? I guess it goes back to the age-old rule; a show of love by fulfilling heroic duties and sacrifices. Nothing wrong with that as long as it is subordinate to one's love to Allah and they are done in obedience to Allah.

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5. Be unpredictable.
Hurm...not exactly my type, but if you're unpredictable in a good way, that's nice. The original article says that the unknown aspects about a guy makes him even more desirable, i.e, he doesn't call you. Makes a woman think about him. Well...maybe.

6. Be thoughtful.
Compliments, gifts (big or small, cheap or not, all get the same score: ONE) Thoughtful, thankful, grateful. Telling me that what I've done is a lot for you, that I'm enough for you and you are appreciative of me and my deeds so far. Not somekind of payment, but just a sign of validation. Read John Gray's book, the mars venus series. Women like to be of service, they are made that way, but they are not vending machines. There's a catch: they're human. Humans like to be appreciated, which does not necessarily make them insincere. Little things goes a long way rather than one big thing once in a blue moon- even Allah likes frequent good deeds, even if small in quantity.

7. Demonstrate (proportional) Dominance.
Not aggressive, pushy or rude. But steadfast or strong action to get what you want. Hold my hand and confidently guide me with correct guidance. Ar-rijalu qowwamuna alan-nisa'. Allah has already shown you how to be sexy and irresistible, but you might have missed the point.

8. Show some class.
Something like the cool confidence and suave personality of James Bond. The rest of you can just make sure you look somewhat presentable, like having shoes and belts that match! Open and hold doors for me. A total win for me (door thingy). Makes you seem caring. For me, I would choose to say that, rather than James Bond, the ultimate cool, confident, suave, 'classy' man is RASULULLAH. I am SURE the prophet was not frumpy-looking or was a person who didn't care about how he looked or presented himself. Unlike James Bond, I am sure the prophet was a charming personality but NOT a womanizer. A person whose company is welcomed and preferred, whose personality is like that because he is deliberately behaving in such a way: full of grace, composure, 'class', etc (without being boring, pretentious, proud or ostentatious). He is deliberately behaving that way, being careful between two extremes, for only one purpose: for the pleasure of ALLAH. (This is the point where Rasulullah and James Bond is different)

9. Sound Smart.
A definite turn-on. Nothing like old-school knowledge. Never nerdy. Knowledge, education, and cleverness is sexy. Totally. : -D I guess that's why Allah made it obligatory for Muslim men & women to acquire knowledge!

10. Make me laugh. 
Make ME laugh, ok, not yourself. Don't make me the joke!! Again, refer to Rasulullah's way of being humorous. He doesn't hurt anyone's feelings in being jovial, nor does he need to be cynical, sarcastic, and the likes.


Most important of all, not being able to achieve all is not true success, but attempt and achieving slow and steady success is better and more promising in making it last longer and permanent change, insyaAllah.

Happy trying!