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This is me INFJ- the turbulent advocate

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The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats (NF), they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs tend to see helping others as their purpose in life, but while people with this personality type can be found engaging rescue efforts and doing charity work, their real passion is to get to the heart of the issue so that people need not be rescued at all.

Help Me Help You

INFJs indeed share a very unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.

Martin Luther King

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. It makes sense that their friends and colleagues will come to think of them as quiet Extroverted types, but they would all do well to remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.

Live to Fight Another Day

Really though, it is most important for INFJs to remember to take care of themselves. The passion of their convictions is perfectly capable of carrying them past their breaking point and if their zeal gets out of hand, they can find themselves exhausted, unhealthy and stressed. This becomes especially apparent when INFJs find themselves up against conflict and criticism – their sensitivity forces them to do everything they can to evade these seemingly personal attacks, but when the circumstances are unavoidable, they can fight back in highly irrational, unhelpful ways.

To INFJs, the world is a place full of inequity – but it doesn’t have to be. No other personality type is better suited to create a movement to right a wrong, no matter how big or small. INFJs just need to remember that while they’re busy taking care of the world, they need to take care of themselves, too.

INFJ Strengths

• Creative – Combining a vivid imagination with a strong sense of compassion, INFJs use their creativity to resolve not technical challenges, but human ones. People with the INFJ personality type enjoy finding the perfect solution for someone they care about, and this strength makes them excellent counselors and advisors.
• Insightful – Seeing through dishonesty and disingenuous motives, INFJs step past manipulation and sales tactics and into a more honest discussion. INFJs see how people and events are connected, and are able to use that insight to get to the heart of the matter.
• Inspiring and Convincing – Speaking in human terms, not technical, INFJs have a fluid, inspirational writing style that appeals to the inner idealist in their audience. INFJs can even be astonishingly good orators, speaking with warmth and passion, if they are proud of what they are speaking for.
• Decisive – Their creativity, insight and inspiration are able to have a real impact on the world, as INFJs are able to follow through on their ideas with conviction, willpower, and the planning necessary to see complex projects through to the end. INFJs don’t just see the way things ought to be, they act on those insights.
• Determined and Passionate – When INFJs come to believe that something is important, they pursue that goal with a conviction and energy that can catch even their friends and loved ones off guard. INFJs will rock the boat if they have to, something not everyone likes to see, but their passion for their chosen cause is an inseparable part of their personality.
• Altruistic – These strengths are used for good. INFJs have strong beliefs and take the actions that they do not because they are trying to advance themselves, but because they are trying to advance an idea that they truly believe will make the world a better place.

INFJ Weaknesses

• Sensitive – When someone challenges or criticizes INFJs’ principles or values, they are likely to receive an alarmingly strong response. People with the INFJ personality type are highly vulnerable to criticism and conflict, and questioning their motives is the quickest way to their bad side.
• Extremely Private – INFJs tend to present themselves as the culmination of an idea. This is partly because they believe in this idea, but also because INFJs are extremely private when it comes to their personal lives, using this image to keep themselves from having to truly open up, even to close friends. Trusting a new friend can be even more challenging for INFJs.
• Perfectionistic – INFJs are all but defined by their pursuit of ideals. While this is a wonderful quality in many ways, an ideal situation is not always possible – in politics, in business, in romance – and INFJs too often drop or ignore healthy and productive situations and relationships, always believing there might be a better option down the road.
• Always Need to Have a Cause – INFJs get so caught up in the passion of their pursuits that any of the cumbersome administrative or maintenance work that comes between them and the ideal they see on the horizon is deeply unwelcome. INFJs like to know that they are taking concrete steps towards their goals, and if routine tasks feel like they are getting in the way, or worse yet, there is no goal at all, they will feel restless and disappointed.
• Can Burn Out Easily – Their passion, poor patience for routine maintenance, tendency to present themselves as an ideal, and extreme privacy tend to leave INFJs with few options for letting off steam. People with this personality type are likely to exhaust themselves in short order if they don’t find a way to balance their ideals with the realities of day-to-day living.

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Satan was not born yesterday

Perasan tak... 

Orang barat sudah mula mengkhususkan makanan kepada "clean food". 

Kita? 1400 tak cukup untuk kita perasan... Allah sebut halalan THOYYIBAN.... Syarat nya bukan HALAL saja... tapi halal dan baik. 

Kita juga lupa kita ada MUSUH sebaik saja di lahirkan....

Musuh kita bukan budak umur 4 tahun. Musuh kita berjuta2 tahun lebih tua dari KITA! 

SO ... please THINK. 

Please cut out white processed sugar and sugar-derivatives and -tose -tose semua tu agar dapat membantu otak kita BENAR2 SEDAR dan dapat berfikir semula....

Sebabnya? They did an experiment on rats on sugar... the rats which were given sugar could not THINK. 

Ingat INGAT

Syaitan bukan baru lahir semalam!!!!!

INFJ

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the last few explain me well

Identity

One
As a woman, there is a vague but powerful sense that your empowerment will injure your relationships. 

And women are taught to value relationships over everything else. We cling to the crumbs of our relationships, while our souls may be deeply longing for the fulfillment of our potential. But the truth is that our relationships alone can never adequately substitute for the hunger to live our lives fully.

Two
Coming into full empowerment requires looking at our relationship with our mothers and having the courage to separate out our own individual beliefs, values, thoughts from hers. It requires feeling the grief of having to witness the pain our mothers endured and processing our own legitimate pain that we endured as a result. This is so challenging but it is the beginning of real freedom.

http://womboflight.com/2014/01/18/why-its-crucial-for-women-to-heal-the-mother-wound/

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Mothers may unconsciously project deep rage towards their children in subtle ways.However, the rage really isn’t towards the children. The rage is towards the patriarchal society that requires women to sacrifice and utterly deplete themselves in order to mother a child.

Allah I repent from all my rage against my child!!!!!!!

taken from:
http://womboflight.com/2014/01/18/why-its-crucial-for-women-to-heal-the-mother-wound/

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Harapan Baru? Sorry. Not for me

Sebagai seorang anak "bukan ikhwah akhawat", pertama sekali saya bersyukur dan bertahmid. Kedua saya positif, kerana saya juga telah di didik supaya ada (gerakan) harapan baru. Ironically enough I think Allah has been trying to teach me this lesson for more than 10 years now, and I still couldn't get it until I recently became a single mom. An anxious, depressed, frustrated, lazy, single mom. Allah then took me out of the box of my comfort zone and reminded me;

I was not born into poverty, I was not born into a marginalized race, and many other was nots which I must be thankful for.

And again, the lesson has been repeated to me and for me because I didn't understand it the first time - reliance (harapan) is upon Allah. Not upon humans.

It does not mean we do not "need" other people nor do we discredit them for their deeds. But those like me who have been blessed in certain ways, fulfil the purpose of my creation in different or similar ways than another person; we're all here to walk together/ in paralell to the same destination. But reliance (harapan), is upon only Allah. Only Allah.

And never on anything else besides Allah. Not easy for me to remember.

Last year during my first trip to TOF @Twins of faith; as I was sitting alone moping in my own feelings and obviously not giving attention to the speaker, suddenly he said so loudly "Ask From Allah! I cannot help you!"

The lesson in it for me, that other humans are merely messengers as the special line of messengers had been (the Prophets). They are merely messengers. The message they bear is A message for YOU (or me) FROM ALLAH.

And that I must ask from Allah- and asking from man is merely an effort which is not wrong but RELIANCE (harapan) is on Allah and Allah only. NEVER on mankind to fulfil my need. Mankind is powerless. It's ok for me to make an effort, including great and hardworking effort even - but reliance and faith/belief in terms of its result and success is upon only Allah.

I hope I passed the course this time and can move onto the next level. Allah. How scary and challenging is that. Please pray for me.

Eid Mubarak, May Allah accept from us our deeds and from yours.

You are Muslim

Shout out to neuro-atypical Muslims

-Muslims with eating disorders that get triggered during Ramadan, who feel obligated to explain why they’re not fasting to nosey aunties

-Muslims on psych meds who can’t fast because without medication they can’t function, who feel uncomfortable explaining this to everyone who asks why they aren’t fasting

-Muslims with ADD who struggle to perform Salah, Taraweeh, read Qur'an, etc.

-Muslims with depression who sometimes find it hard to get out of bed and do the obligatory prayers or go to Masjid

-Muslims with Bipolar who find Islamic obligations easy on some days and impossible on others, who are seen as flaky or flip-floppy about faith

-Muslims with social anxiety who are afraid to pray in masjid because of fear of making mistakes or being looked at

-Muslims with dissociative issues who struggle with performing Salah and other obligations due to fear/threat of dissociating

-Muslims with PTSD, sensory issues or agoraphobia who are unable to go to masjid or other crowded areas & get seen as rude/snobby, or feel isolated

-Muslims with low self worth, suicidal ideations, etc that feel guilty because of that.

-Muslims with autism who are viewed/treated as a difficult test for their families

-Muslims with mental healtn issues who are told they need prayer or that their issues are caused by lack of imaan.

-All Muslims with any other mental health issue that I forgot to add that affects their practice of Islam & treatment in the Ummah

You are valid. 
Your Islam is valid. 
And you are Allah (SWT)’s beautiful creation.

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